I thought I had a lot of “stuff” before I had kids… unfortunately, I inherited my mother’s “You can’t throw that away!” gene. Not quite hoarders, but, ya know, mini-hoarders.
Then I had kids.
Do you know how much stuff kids have? Now I’m drowning in the stuff we already had and easily acquired twice as much kid-stuff. Just before Thanksgiving, we decided to do a big purge so we could actually use our fireplace again. The toys had taken over. Literally. We could barely see our fireplace — it was the best place to put the toys, even though we had a perfectly good finished basement playroom full of toys my kids barely touched anymore. So, not only did we need to figure out which toys were vital to keep and which were ok to donate (or trash) in our family room, but we had to do the same in the basement. It’s amazing how many happy meal toys two children can accumulate over the course of… ok, my youngest is 2 1/2… hmmm. Who has time to go through shit like that?! Once you bring home baby #2, you’re lucky if you can keep up with the daily responsibilities, let alone extra cleaning/organizing?! Right. That’s not how I roll. I managed to successfully ignore it for that long… don’t I get credit for that?
Well, I’m finally to the point where I can let the kids play on their own for awhile and not worry about one of them harming the other, at least not immediately. So my excuses for not keeping up with the snowball effect of toys are dwindling. When the hubs & I woke up one Sunday morning, we were talking about getting a glass door for the fireplace, then we both looked in the general direction of the fireplace and almost cried. The hubs just started making piles. I don’t know if he truly knew what each pile meant immediately, but I think he just wanted to throw it all away. That’s how he rolls. Compromise — 3 piles: keep, trash, donate. We didn’t really tell the kids what we were doing, but they liked the 3 pile game.
About an hour or so later, we moved the 3 piles to their respective locations, kept art, books, blocks, a few board games & puzzles on the main floor and moved the rest to the basement where we started a bigger trash pile. Why did we keep all this crap?! Ugh. It was frustrating at first, but seeing the finished result was refreshing. (sorry, it was such a random thing that we didn’t snap before/after photos! I’m bummed!) The playroom looked awesome until just after Christmas, when more toys arrived. I should be picking it up with my oldest right now, but here I sit.
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Hey Kelli. Found you through the Michigan blogger moms group on bloggy mom. I am north of Grand Rapids, enjoying a snow day today! I sure can feel your pain about trying to get and stay organized. It’s a challenge for me too. 🙂 Looking forward to reading more of your blog.
Sounds like you guys did great work!!
I’m kinda wondering the same thing! We’re not done reproducing (at least one more in the works…well, will be in the works), so we don’t want to get rid of stuff we’ll end up, possibly using again, but I can so see how stuff piles up! Kids have tons of crap!
I hear that! Liam has so many toys that have gazillions of pieces. It’s something we’ll try to keep an eye on when we buy him new stuff–the fewer the pieces, the more likely he is to get it. 🙂
Thanks, Ladies! Alissa, we haven’t conquered the small-toy battle yet. The girls are both into Littlest PetShop and Sedona is in love with Strawberry Shortcake… all of which have the tiniest pieces ever! But the plastic Happy Meal toys have a shelf-life of about 2 hours in my house. Funny thing is, since I started trashing the HM toys so quickly, I have yet to hear a whine wondering where they went.